Patricia

Patricia (not her real name) was a professional dominatrix or switch depending upon the wishes of her client. She was dominant enough to protect herself in submissive sessions.

But Patricia had a major problem. She could not ask her clients for what she wanted for fear they would go too far. She seldom did sessions as a submissive because she felt that it would taint her reputation as a dominatrix so she would do sessions as a professional switch. Very few of her clients, according to her, could give her what she wished.

To get beyond this problem, she would visit me (Master Robin) every few weeks and do sessions with me. She felt safe and knew I was discrete enough not to let her story out. She could request that we do specific sessions or tasks so, as she put it, she could experience the feelings and "feelings" of her submissive clients.

I won't say that we "did it all," but we sure did sure "did a lot of it." We played with costumes, various impact play toys. She was able to experience how a session was modified by scene music, lighting, indoor- and outdoor settings.

It was important to her to find out what she liked and what she did not like. There were even a few times when she used her safe word "green" (lol).

She discovered she liked bondage, spanking, and flogging but not single-tail sessions. Slave/service sessions were fun, but High Tea with all of its protocol stuff was boring.

Human Sushi Bar sessions were interesting but they made her laugh. She was fearful of piercings and branding. Enemas were messy, and humiliation was DEFINITELY not for her.

She tried overnight sessions. (Too uncomfortable for too long!)

During one session, she asked about piercings. I showed her the amount of prep work and how to sterilize everything. We talked about play piercings, body piercings, and skin piercings: with and without jewelry. I explained the benefits and gags as part of a piercing session.

We decided the best approach to this topic was an academic approach. Although she was ok with skin piercing and ear piercings, nipple piercing was a definite "RED" -- a definite 'Tourettes Moment'.

When that session was over, I was truly afraid it would call a total end to our sessions and our friendship. Fortunately though, after a cup of tea and a cool-down time, she was quite thankful for the experience.

"We will continue our sessions together, but without the needles!"

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