Legends of Dominance - 03
Legends of Dominance - 03 by Mistress Michelle Peters et al. and posted with permission (All information herein is provided by author) Legends of Dominance Article Index |
An Interview with Dutchess Von Stern in NYC
- Newest House of Pain & Pleasure!
- By Morgan Steele
It was a cold snowy night, Friday Jan. 13, 1984. I was quite reluctant to go anywhere, but, the appointment had been made and I'm not one for being tardy. It was a lovely area in Chelsea, right off 5th Avenue, the street was brightly lit and I didn't mind walking to the corner to call. The security in this place surprised me, most places you just walk in. The ladies here require you to call & then the outer doors open. The lady on the phone identified herself as Mistress Beth and told me to come up the block. I went to the door and it was immediately opened by a lovely oriental girl who was elaborately dressed in Chinese silk. She led led me to the elevator and brought me upstairs. When the elevator opened the door was locked the girl Bette[as she had introduced herself coming up] opened the door and stepped to the side. Here I was seated to await my appointment with Mistress Von Stern. A slinky, sexy Mistress in leather boots and skirt with bra top came 'in. The air seemed to be electric with her Dominance. This lady was definitely a Dominatrix and very much aware of her beauty. Her hair was meticulously. brushed to her waist a sandy and lustrous honey brown, and her hazel eyes flickered. She reached out for me with her black gloved hand. I introduced myself and told her to be free to call me I agreed to call her Dutchess.
M: Lovely place you women have here, do you have a dungeon?
D. Yes we have a fully equipped Bondage Dungeon. The G.M. gave us this exquisite hand burned crucifix with red leather padding and D rings, it's great for stringent Bondage, over the head, spread eagle standing up, cock torture, etc. We use leather restraint, ropes and latex. After all each bondage devotee is different.
M:I didn't know this what other bondage devices do you have?
D: We have fully leather upholstered horse with D rings for spread eagle face up or bottoms up discipline leg and arm spreader bars, these are easily suspended off the hoist or cross. We have a variety of bondage harnesses, chastity belts, Bondage belts, B&D genital restraints, torture devices and hospital restraints. The list is endless, as you know the GM loves B&D and her collection has been amassed over several years.
M: Well then would you say your specialty is limited to B&D?
D:No, that's just the beginning. Come here and look at these things. [She then opens what appears to be a trunk] These are adult male & female baby clothes. I have bonnets in pink, blue, some with little animals with matching booties, pram jackets and baby toys. I have a playtex bottle with plastic liners for babies who need special nourishment. I even have adult size pampers for naughty pissy type babies. You see Morgan we believe to have a real good fantasy all the props are essential it helps make the atmosphere more real.
M: I am surprised to see your so well equipped most places have one specialty and just basics. Why don't you show and tell me more!
D. I will this is our TV wardrobe here you will find TV maids outfits 3 to be exact. One is small to med, the other is med to large and lastly extra large. These are assorted corsets in a variety of satin, lace and cotton. Also we have a complete collection of panties and hose. We prefer TVs to bring there own nylons but in an emergency we will help out with a pair. We have several wigs in several lengths and colors as well as jewelry, perfumes, make-up and feminine accessories. We even have shoes and outerwear for those who are more daring and want jaunts on the town.
M: Why I'm really impressed some of these undies are so nice I'd love to have them myself. Why feel this stuff it's absolutely fantastic jerk off material. What is that? It looks like a saddle?
D: Yes, it is. We have a racing saddle, bit, harness & reins and assorted crops for equestrian riders. I have these real hot jodhpurs in leather & riding boots with a 5" heel. I especially enjoy this kind of training for I believe a slave belongs beneath my ass!
M: What other things do you have to show me?
D: My specialty fetish is foot and boot slaves. I have a large assortment of leather boots in all types of style and spike heels. I love to have my boots worshiped and have an extensive collection to please myself, as well as train my slaves with. I also have over 50 pairs .of french high heels to match my wardrobe. High heels for all seasons. I love to wear my boots with dresses and skirts in the winter and spikes with skirts in the summer. I think heels make a woman's leg so gorgeous.
M: I think your right, after all foot worship is a big fetish now. Look at all these whips do they have a use so different that you need such a large assortment?
D: We have suede and leather cats of varying length & thickness. Some are used for nipple thrashing, cock whipping, bare ass whipping. These crops are leather, fiberglass, horse hair and latex. Each has its own select caress. Our flagellants know and love this one. The leather tongs are 4" thick and when you lay this across someones ass or back they know they've been whipped.
As a general rule I prefer the suede cat for novices but this one is great if you have a slave whose hide is like leather and he needs to be whipped [ or prefers it] in either case this whip is tough enough for the toughest hide.
M: I love the dungeon but lets sit somewhere & get some facts. [ I followed Dutchess to a lounge area the furniture was plush, contemporary and the artwork was original something you'd see in an erotic art gallery. I was impressed by the comfort in the corner was a wrought iron black caoe with a door big enough to allow a human inside. I wondered whether it had ever been used for that.]
D: I know what you're thinking and I assure you we get plenty of use out of it. [No sooner had she said that when Cheri Sharp [music composer] and Tina Tachlias [Camera & editor] came in with a beautiful blonde slave girl in tow and locked her into the cage.
The women came over introduced themselves and directed me into the editing room. Here I watched the latest releases of Star Maker Video.
For the sake of accuracy and my memory banks I will relate what I saw from here. I was impressed the women could handle such high tech machinery these weren't just ordinary women. They had mastered the art of Domination and have produced a highly competitive FD Product. In feature film style they weave their magic, a magic that is slick, professional and unique. Each Video commercial was better than the other. They explained that through sessions and parties they learn more and more about unique and diversified sexuality. They have numerous script writes and meetings to produce each film. Each area from costumes, to props is planned and mapped out before the actual shoot. This eliminates accidents, lack of footage and any number of things that happen when one is disorganized. I left there feeling somehow that these women had there act together. The GM, Dutchess, Cheri, Tina and all the other Mistress who help Star Maker got a winning production here. It was snowing outside but it was warmer than' sunshine in here. We wrapped the evening up by having the Mistress'es slaves wait on us,
After we ate I took turns punishing Tina & Cheri's slavegirl. I also cock whipped the Dutchess B&D slave who I found later tied up in the ladies room and the TV maid got a good high heel fucking. By 2 in the morning I was exhausted without an ounce of aggression or tension in my bones. I drifted off to sleep fantasizing about the next time I'd go there. On a scale of 1-100 I'd give Star Maker 99. after all even a Mistress shouldn't be perfect!
--Morgan
Goddess Dianna Vesta
- Story from Corporal Newspaper, Vol. 14, No. 7, July 1991
There is something special about the way a submissive male looks when a dominant lady comes into view. His eyes light up and his body comes alive His breath grows rapid, he is juggling his senses.
Once she is within reach of him or speaks to him. his pitiful soul melts down to nothing and he realizes that he is nothing, compared to Her. He is used to feelings of inadequacy however this Woman is forcing him to his worthless knees and he knows that he will never be enough for Her. This magnificent creature awakens the deepest and darkest aspects of his soul and everything he has ever been taught is in conflict with his desires.
Other woman have awakened desires, this is the power of The Feminine, however they are quickly replaced by the next skirt that crosses his path. This Woman, is effecting every esoteric inch of his body and he may walk away, but he will never forget Her. He'll try to sleep and She will be there. The structure and foundation he has built for himself out of beliefs and morals begins to rock , shake and break. He's scared and he s not prepared to change yet.
What happens when this happens to you? Perhaps it already has or maybe it is right ? Is there a someone entering your mind?
You've been taught that it isn't possible, right? Tell Me something; Do you believe you can have it All?
My name is Dianna Vesta and although I am female I battled within Myself for years suppressing hidden desires. 1 am now a life-style Dominant and have successfully integrated each and every aspect of My life into a complete D/s (dominant/submission) world.
In consensus reality I was considered very successful and I was permitted to exercise My aggression and control, however it wasn't the same and it wasn't easy. It took time and a tremendous amount of faith to do what I've done.
I don't think that it is necessary for every one to go to the extremes I have or still do, I just think it's really funny when a female/male comes before Me and tell Me; " but Goddess, you don't understand ... what about my family, my career, my friends?"
For some reason they feel that they will be lost so deeply within their submission and surrender that their lives will instantly change. It would be really great for some if change wouid happen that quickly, [smile] But it doesn't and successful transformation takes time and commitment. One or two session are not going to send you out to left field and if it does you are probably suppose to be out there.
What usually happens is that you sense a sincere readiness and your consciousness won't leave you alone. This usually does happen when change is about to occur.
Some of us will naturally go off into an extreme until we have solved the mystery and with pieces of that puzzle we begin to slowly introduced and incorporate this new knowledge into our lives.
Some are very eclectic and gather bits and pieces and change comes about slowly and they continue Is masturbation enough?
Is your temporary fulfillment really satisfying you?
Maybe you want more and you just aren't sure how to get it.
Reading is definitely a good safe spot. You'll must learn to communicate within the scene and you'll be buzzing with new ideas. Videos are a good way to stimulate and are also a good way to see your favorite Dom in action. This however is not a true account of her skills. I personally am an exhibitionist and I adore the attention, however most Mistresses don't really like the camera and the ones that do are tremendously limited in what they are able to do on a footage that will go across the country. Most professional Dominatrix' s have a lot of experience and are into many different things. The trick is finding, one and then you must learn how to approach Her. She is a Tiger and she must be approach reverently with respect. Read about Her, talk to her and others (if you can) learn about Her... not because she has a whip and thigh high leather boots, know who SHE is. Find out right away how she wishes to be treated and spoken to. She may require a letter and with this she will judge whether or not she will continue. The approach I like the best is when someone who is a novice wants to learn to be everything he can for a dominant lady. He has already envisioned in his mind and in his goals that this is what he wants to work towards and he is willing to submit to an experienced teacher.
Maybe along the way during his training he will be accepted by the teacher to be her pet or maybe even her personal slave. The point is that he is learning to explore his own submission so that he may integrate it in to his life and become more complete within himself. Maybe his future will not have a defined life-style where labels and words are used to define roles.
If properly trained he will find balance and in turn he will be able to empower his female so that she too can find her balance.
He will encounter dragons and beasts and if he is a worthy soldier he will be rewarded with the woman of his dreams ... He will have his Queen, to whom he will worship as long as he continues to be worthy.
Some men are naturally submissive and naturally ready.
Some men, though submissive, are bound so tightly with patriarchal fibers that they need help in letting go.
A lot of you have gone to a professional session with the hopes of finding repentance and all you found was how many different ways you can be bound. Was your desire to submit sincere? When you first made this attempt what did you do? Did you see her in a paper and saw her number and picked up the phone to book a session to get your feet wet? Or was it kinky sex you were after?
If sex is what your after you won't find it through a session with a true Domina. She may grant you a reward if you follow her instructions correctly, but if she senses that is what you expect, she will boot your little worthless ass out the door.
If your desire is to have kinky sex, I recommend some of the domination houses. Talk to the person on the phone and explain exactly what it is your looking for. Don't think that because she follows a list of your fantasies, that she's not dominant. She may or may not be. She is a professional and you are there for what YOU WANT.
You are not there to learn the depths of your soul nor to explore your submission.
A true Domina trainer will respect your limits, however. you will find life much simpler if you jusl let go and surrender yourself to this complexed and progressive Female. The process is slow and at times it doesn't seem to make much sense at all. You are given task that seem useless to your development.
Most times Domina's use an initiatory process to determine whether the slave or student is sincere. - If he drops out soon, he was never meant to be within the inner depths of this woman's mind.
Anyone who has every know a Domina personally will confess that the mind of a powerful woman is a vortex and it's easy to get lost in the whirl wind. She is capable of turning you inside out. If you are worthy and she loves you, she will enhance your life unbelievable. You will be in a space that will rock of comfort and bliss ... Her cruelty will be constructive and Her anger bridled.
If you are not worthy. She will rip you apart. The changes will be constructive when you realize the mistake you've made in disappointing Her.
You will not be given the time of day if you don't please Her. I have purchased a 900 number for this reason.
I was tired of repeating Myself and I wasn't going to give heated conversation or erotic masturbation session over the phone to some worthless male who I didn't know.
I put the standard recording menu on for time wasters and then a special recording for those preparing to meet Me or speak to Me. I can be reached directly and it is possible to speak to Me, but if you haven't listened to that recording I will hang up the phone.
Most professional trainers don't take anyone serious until they have a clear indication that someone is. This is through action and not because h.e says he is sincere. You will usually be given some stupid, menial task and through your performance and display she will decide whether or not she wants to continue.
If you think just because your paying a fee or bringing her gifts, that should warrant sincerity or expectations, you are a fool!
Try just being sweet and real. Cute, sometimes works.
Through a letter and voice explore her nature. Find out what pleases her, and don't wait for her to ask or don't ask her always ... try to read between the lines and be creative enough to explore and take chances. If she's displeased she will let you know.[ laughing out loud] Don't just write once or call once to introduce yourself, she gets lots of mail and calls. Why would she remember you? Call her often but don't bug her. Offer to give her a gift for her valuable time so you may speak to her and begin to understand her. Do this first, before you see her. Let her know you. The adoration you provide through gifts and compliments will keep her intrigued enough to keep a nice stream of learning.
Women love presents and if you don't know what to give her then send money so she may buy something she needs. Amuse her with conversation and don't be a wanting and whining idiot. In time you will find yourself in her thoughts and THAT is a privilege. If for some reason you don't connect, go back to the drawing table and figure out a new strategy so you'll have better luck with the next Domina.
If you give up easily then it's just as well, because you are not worthy of any woman, much less an powerful and dominant creature. If you are worthy and sincere REALLY, then prove it with action and not words,
Be someone who will get her attention. If cost is a factor and you don't believe you could afford to adore such a woman, then save while you are writing her. Send her small tokens of appreciation and do whatever you can for her. Prove to her that you are not there to waste her time, and that you sincerely want to learn from her. If you are really sincere and persistent, you will get her attention.
Exploring yourself can be fulfilling. Attaining personal goals can be enlightening. If you want the life you dream of then you must be consistent with your plan.
Conceptualize how you really want your life to be. Don't put up walls and convince yourself that you can't have it, even if everyone tells you it's impossible. Just go for it! Begin making subtle changes ... learn, read. explore and most of all experiment.
I did and look where it got Me .... I am very happy and wish the same for ALL of you.
Good-Luck.
The Goddess Dianna Vesta
Dianna Vesta is a life-style Dominant who teaches and trains females and maies to explore themselves within the D/s scene. She conducts seminars and small workshops where she teaches and works with couples and individuals who want to incorporate Dominance and submission into their life-style. She is located in New York and travels often to visit students who are in on-going training programs and to speak at different functions and organization. She also makes her home available for week-end and extended stays for the right students and couples. She can be reached at:
Goddess Dianna Vesta This address is for mail only of Ms. Vesta.
Sondra Rey ( Call Me Goddess )
My name is Goddess Sondra. I am a true lifestyle Mistress and Dominatrix. I want you to look at my photos. You can see I'm beautiful. My slaves say I was meant to be worshiped and adored. Get down on your knees, now. If you ever hope to serve me, your place will always be at my feet.
Observe my long red fingernails. I am very proud of my claws. I have slaves who make sure they are always perfect and sharp. Just imagine me running these long fingernails all over your body. I can dig them into you or I can tease you into a state of ecstasy. Just with my nails.
If you were with me now I'd have you suck on them. One at a time. I bet you'd like that, wouldn't you slave?
I have something very special I do with my nails. Using my famous "fan clamp' I can make you rise off your feet by piercing your nipples with the sharp points of my nails. No one can do this but me. The sensation is indescribable. You'll have to experience it for yourself.
If you're very lucky, I may select you to serve me in one of my dungeons, located primarily on the west coast. Imagine kneeling before me and gazing at my vast beauty. You can be sure I'll be wearing one of my gorgeous fetish outfits. My feet will be enshrined in six inch French pumps or crotch high thigh boots.
Your sensory level will be bathed in my female essence. What comes next, depends on my mood and your needs. Personally, I love all forms of S/M play.
As long as you are sincere, follow procedures, and enter my dungeon with the proper attitude, I will enjoy using you for my own pleasure.
Your purpose on earth is to submit and serve me as I see fit. Your only responsibility is to obey all my commands.
However, you must remember to notify me of any personal limitations before we play. Only then can our erotic rapport soar to new heights.
Both Goddess and slave must have fun. For me, the Goddess/slave relationship is an ongoing process that builds with each encounter. I am a very busy Goddess and only have room for the best in my stable. But don't worry, you can begin to serve me right now. If you would like to see me in action, I have a special treat for you. I produce my own line of videos which I know you will love. My videos involve foot worship, spanking, caning, paddling, and other forms of discipline. Body worship, cross dressing, latex, fingernails, smoking, and a wide variety of fetish attire will keep you riveted to the screen. I also produce custom videos if you would like something made just for you.
If you would like more information about me and my videos you must write with a self-addressed stamped envelope. Send your letter to:
- S. Rey
- San Francisco, CA
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