Beard (companion)

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Beard is a slang term describing a person who is used, knowingly or unknowingly, as a date, romantic partner, or spouse either to conceal infidelity or to conceal one's sexual orientation. The term can be used in heterosexual and homosexual contexts, but with increasing acceptance of LGBT culture, references to beards are seen in mainstream television and movies as well as other entertainment.

Concealing infidelity

In early usage of the term, a beard scenario involved concealing infidelity in a monogamous relationship.

In a typical scenario, X and Y are in a supposedly exclusive relationship, but X is actually cheating with Z. However, to keep Y from learning about X's infidelity, W, the "beard", pretends to be paired with Z.

Such a scenario is a central premise of Woody Allen's 1984 film "Broadway Danny Rose". The titular talent agent is the beard, pretending to date Tina, a single woman who is actually having an affair with married singer Lou Canova. By posing as Tina's date, Danny can bring her to Lou's performances without drawing attention from Lou's suspicious wife. The term "beard" is a running gag, used four times (e.g., "I'm only the beard") when Tina's relatives assume Danny is Tina's previously mysterious lover.

Concealing sexual orientation

Recognized usage of "beard" applies to a person who serves to camouflage another's sexual orientation. An example is a gay man pretending to date a woman, in an effort to conceal his sexuality. Though beard entered wider use in the 1960s, many of the reported lavender marriages of 1920s in Hollywood, and the similar reported romantic marriage of Rock Hudson (mid-1950s) employed the same usage. In Hudson's case, Phyllis Gates acted as his beard, to avert the perceived damage that the disclosure of Hudson's homosexuality might have on his career.

In the 2010 comedy "Easy A" the main character, Olive, agrees to be a beard for her friend Brandon, so he will no longer be bullied.

Children resulting from this type of marriage are known as "Beard children".

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