On Bondage
There is much speculation as to when and/or where bondage really originated. But most of our experts are true bondage enthusiasts who have researched the subject thoroughly. Say bondage originated in the Far East, where the inflicting of shame and humility on the subservient female was a way of life. Nevertheless, in the next decade or two, as tons of literature has appeared on the subject, more and more people have become interested in bondage as a means of sexual expression. And because of the sexual freedom that has become prevalent in our society over the past few years, it is pretty easy for the bondage enthusiast to locate others having similar desires. Thus, bondage clubs and cults are growing in number. Psychiatrists have labeled (they have a label for everything) bondage as being erotic, as being beyond the usual sexual patterns of society as a whole. Some have even labeled bondage enthusiasts as weird and perverted. Naturally, we at THE B&D CLUB disagree, though we do not take offense to the words, writings, and labels of our learned friends, the psychiatrists. No, we do not take offense, for we believe that here, in a free society, we should be able to say what's on his mind. We also think that in a free society, men and women, couples or groups, should be allowed the freedom of self-expression, whether mentally, spiritually, or sexually. You should be allowed to practice whatever your thing is, as long as it doesn't mentally or physically endanger the health or welfare of another human being unless that human being consents to having his or her health or welfare endangered.
We have found, over the years, that those "authorities" who speak the loudest and longest against bondage and its related activities know very little about the subjects -- except from a clinical point of view. They have very little first-hand experience, or their experience was distasteful. They have not taken the time to investigate the excitement or the beauty of a total bondage experience. Or possibly the one bondage experience they half-heartedly went into wasn't handled with enough class to fill a thimble. Anyway, let's let get back to the main theme of this article, which is bondage. Bondage is a sexual expression and dominates a sexual drive in varying degrees, according to the individual. Bondage enables the captor to look upon himself as "The King", "The Master", who has complete authority to control and sexually use and enjoy the captive. To most of us, bondage is a stimulating game. To some of us, bondage controls our entire existence. Sadism does play an active role in bondage; however great I however slight depends upon the needs and desires of each individual. Some of us like to mentally feel that we are inflicting pain on our captive, while others are actually doing so. Though it is not generally the case, some often substitute bondage and sadism for normal "coitus." Though these cases are few and far between, it is these Poole society looks upon when passing out labels. Whatever happened to the rest of us? Bondage is probably the most common act of all sexual deviations (we have deviated from regular intercourse). Sadism, coupled with bondage, puts the victim in a position of helplessness and humiliation. And the desire to hurt or destroy the victim becomes foremost on the captor's mind. However, let us make it perfectly clear about this point that this desire is in the mind of the captor and not in the will of the captor.
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